As we navigate the later stages of life, how we interact with the world around us often undergo significant shifts. For many families, observing a sudden change in a parent’s or grandparent’s temperament can be confusing and distressing. Behavioural changes in older adults are rarely random; from a psychological perspective, they are often a complex response to biological, cognitive, and environmental transitions. Understanding these shifts requires looking beyond the surface-level “behaviour” to find the underlying emotional or neurological cause. At the Global Development Foundation (GDF), we believe that treating these changes with empathy and clinical insight is the cornerstone of effective elder support.
Psychologically, behaviour is a form of communication. When an older adult becomes uncharacteristically irritable, withdrawn, or suspicious, it is often because they are struggling to articulate internal discomfort or a sense of losing control. The brain’s executive functions—the abilities that allow us to regulate our emotions and plan our actions—can weaken with age or neurodegeneration. When these “internal brakes” falter, we see a rise in behavioural symptoms that can strain even the most loving relationships.
The Emotional Drivers of Behavioural Shifts
One of the most common psychological catalysts for behavioural change is anxiety. For an older adult, this isn’t always a generalised worry; it is often specifically tied to a fear of the unknown or a loss of physical safety. A senior might become agitated when their routine is disrupted because that routine serves as their psychological “anchor” in a world that feels increasingly unpredictable. When they cannot predict what happens next, their nervous system enters a state of hyperarousal, leading to what family members might perceive as “stubbornness” or “aggression.”
Equally impactful is the psychological weight of loneliness. In the later years, the loss of peers and a shrinking social circle can lead to a profound sense of isolation. Psychologically, human beings are social creatures, and a lack of meaningful connection can manifest as apathy or low motivation. An older adult might stop bathing, eating properly, or engaging in hobbies because they no longer feel a sense of “social purpose.” This is not necessarily a sign of laziness; it is often a psychological response to a perceived lack of value in their environment.
Furthermore, many seniors suffer from social anxiety as they become more aware of their physical or cognitive limitations. They may refuse to attend family gatherings or go to the market because they are afraid of making a mistake, forgetting a name, or being “a burden.” This withdrawal is a defence mechanism intended to preserve their dignity, but it unfortunately exacerbates the cycle of isolation and decline.
The Caregiver’s Role and Systemic Support
Behavioural changes do not occur in a vacuum; they deeply affect the family unit. As a senior moves toward a state of dependence, the primary caregiver—often a spouse or adult child—takes on a massive psychological and physical load. This constant pressure can lead to caregiver burnout, a state of total exhaustion that makes it difficult to provide compassionate care. When a caregiver is burnt out, their own stress can “mirror” back to the older adult, creating a tense environment that triggers even more challenging behaviours.
To break this cycle, it is essential to seek help from a structured non-profit organisation that understands these specific dynamics. Several non-governmental organisations in India, like the Global Development Foundation(GDF), have begun to specialise in the intersection of mental health and ageing, recognising that medical treatment alone is not enough to manage behavioural health.
Connecting with a specialised NGO for mental health allows families to access behavioural intervention plans. These plans focus on “environmental modification”—changing the way we communicate and the structure of the home—to reduce the senior’s distress. By shifting the focus from “fixing the person” to “supporting the environment,” we can significantly lower the frequency of agitated behaviours.
GDF’s Approach to Geriatric Behavioural Health
The Global Development Foundation functions as a comprehensive mental health foundation dedicated to the well-being of the elderly. Our mission is to transform geriatric health by integrating psychological support into community-based care. We understand that a behavioural change is often a “cry for help” that needs to be answered with professional expertise and community empathy.
Through our specialised NGO for elder care programs, we offer workshops for families on how to manage “sundowning,” aggression, and apathy. We also conduct a regular health camp where we provide mental health screenings alongside physical check-ups. These camps are vital for identifying underlying causes of behavioural shifts, such as undiagnosed depression or sensory impairments, which are often mistaken for “just getting old.”
As a leader in geriatric care, GDF emphasises the importance of maintaining a senior’s autonomy for as long as possible. By providing cognitive stimulation and social engagement programs, we help seniors maintain their sense of self-efficacy, which is the best defence against behavioural deterioration.
Through meaningful collaboration with platforms like TalktoAngel and the Psychowellness Centre, GDF strengthens access to professional psychological support—bridging clinical expertise with community empowerment to manage behavioural challenges, reduce caregiver strain, and foster healthier coping routines for seniors and their families.
Strategies for Navigating Behavioural Transitions
To manage these changes effectively, families should consider the following psychological strategies:
- Validation Therapy: Instead of correcting an older adult’s “wrong” perception, validate the emotion behind it. If they are scared, comfort them rather than arguing about the facts.
- Sensory Regulation: Ensure the environment is not too loud or bright, which can trigger sensory overload and agitation.
- Predictable Routines: Maintaining a consistent daily schedule helps lower anxiety by providing a sense of psychological safety.
Conclusion
Understanding and managing behavioural changes in older adults is a critical part of ensuring they live their lives with dignity and emotional well-being. By viewing these shifts through a psychological lens, we can move from frustration to informed care, providing the necessary support for both the senior and their family. At the Global Development Foundation (GDF), this commitment to geriatric health is reflected in our community-based programs and education initiatives, which establish GDF as one of the best organisations for elderly support. Whether it is through specialised counselling or supportive community initiatives, we are dedicated to ensuring that no one has to navigate the complexities of ageing alone.
Contribution: Dr R.K. Suri, Clinical Psychologist, and Mr Umesh Bhusal, Counselling Psychologist
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